Why

I often ask the question Why? Why do people lie? Why do people Scheme? Why is there so much anger and Hate in this world? Everyone in this world wants to be on top, our friends want to be ahead of us whatever it takes, our family wants us to be what they want, our spouse wants us to adjust ourselves according to them and when these things are not fulfilled people around us get mad at us and think bad of us because we couldn't fulfil their desire. But Why should we be expected to fulfil their Desire and not our own? Desires when not fulfilled creates hatred in everyone, not for others only but for ourselves also. If you spend years under the control of a person eventually even if you loved them at first, the feelings will turn to Hate and resentment. This happens because people mostly look into each other’s lives rather than Control their own lives, giving rise to jealousy because of insecurities and possessiveness. The will to control everything around them and then failing to do so leaves a negative impact on us and this negative impact turns out to be the feeling called hatred. The passions of hate arise from several features of our thinking process. These include wanting to assign blame for misfortune, protecting our self-esteem, a desire to strengthen our community, the need to avoid toxins, alleviating our fears, and several types of errors in reasoning. The ability to quickly separate friend from foe is essential to self-defence and safety and provides the origins of hate. And I still ask Why? What causes people to want to Control Others Maybe it’s a sign of weakness, being insecure! One reason why there is such irrational hatred targeted toward anyone is because it makes people feel better. If your life sucks, it's easier to be a victim and say the person is making your life hard than to admit you have a bad life or made bad decisions. Hatred paralyses life; Love releases it. Hatred confuses life; Love harmonises it. Hatred darkens life; Light Illuminates it. But there is one thing I do know and believe, and that’s Karma; in simple words ”is getting what you give" or reaping what you sow. All your actions will have equal repercussions.