Life is not complicated. We are complicated. When we stop doing the wrong things and start doing the right things, life is simple.
When someone says the world doesn't revolve around you, they really mean “I’m more important than you”.
Well, you know what?
Your world does revolve around you – your choices, desires and your decisions every day about how you want life to be. You are the director, producer and the starring actor of your life.
1. Trying to be perfect.
You’re not here to do everything so perfectly. You’re here to enjoy life, despite your disadvantages and weaknesses. It’s okay to mess up once in a while. You’re going to miss out on important things in life if you keep being so hard on yourself. You’re allowed to make mistakes. It’s okay to not be the best all the time.
2. Learn to enjoy the process.
Fall in love with the moment and stay in it as much as you can. Things can change quickly and you don’t want look back one day and wish that you could have done things differently. Grow and be patient with yourself.
3. Set goals.
There are a Million things that you can’t control in life. It’s nice to set goals for yourself, but remember that not being able to reach them or fulfil them by a certain time isn’t going to make you a failure. You have to learn to trust and embrace the unknown.
4. Don`t Waste your time.
Time is valuable. It is something that can slip through your fingers without you noticing it. You think you have so much of it until it’s too late and you realise that you can’t get it back anymore. You need to be smart with how you spend your time. You have to make sure that you only dedicate it to the things that you are passionate about, with the people who appreciate you, and in the environment where you truly belong.
if you feel stuck with the wrong people, be brave enough to leave, don`t be scared to walk away. The world is big enough for you, and you don`t want to feel miserable.
5. Stop Complaining about little things.
Instead of being upset over tiny things that get under your skin, why not focus all your energy on the brighter side of each situation? There’s no guarantee that you’re going to love everything that you’re going to see, hear, and experience when you step out of your comfort zone. Let down all your walls and expectations and learn to be more accepting of those you can’t understand.
6. No need to worry.
Stop worrying so much about what is yet to happen. Stop looking so far ahead of you. Pay attention to what is happening right in front of you, and if you are not satisfied in your situation – do your best to change it.
There are some words that you can’t take back anymore, some memories you can’t re-make, some decisions you can’t change. You can’t do anything about the past, but you can learn from it. You can make peace with it and start moving forward in your life. You still have so many chances to correct your mistakes before. You still have time to make things right. It’s never too late to change, and start all over again.